Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Slum guy

I walk to State Street where I meet Richelle and we go see the movie ‘Slumdog Millionaire’. For me it’s a little disturbing ..reminding me of how cruel people can be to one another. Afterwards, we sit and talk about ‘karma’ ..which I believe is closer to the law of cause and effect than it is to the notion of destiny or fate. No argument there. The next morning I send my sister an IM simply saying that I saw the movie. When I don’t get a reply before I have to leave ..I add: “don’t take it as an endorsement or anything.” She responds immediately asking: “why not ?” ..and says she’s planning to go see it this weekend with my niece. I know she doesn’t like to watch disturbing movies ..so, I tell her to brace herself. She asks me what I mean and I tell her it’s not like what you see on PBS ..it’s a different ‘slice of life’. She’s disappointed ..which makes me feel bad, so ..I tell her to go; it’s definitely worth seeing . She tells me she intends to ..and reminds me that I’ve lied to her about these things in the past. I know she pays close attention to the entertainment news, so, like a jerk, I add: “Ignore the critics who say it’s not a balanced portrait of India ..it may not be balanced ..but it sure is realistic” ..to which she replies: “Well, duh .. how else would they have time for all the romantic stuff” ..and I’m like: “That’s right” ..knowing full well that I’ve just chucked whatever credibility I had left out the window.

6 comments:

Shimmerrings said...

It's part of the slow waltz...

lee said...

Isn't it tho ..

Shimmerrings said...

...and... in order to not compromise your integrity, you could preface those sorts of things with, "in my opinion"... often, when someone is giving me their opinion, and I disagree, they will begin to argue that their thoughts are the true and actual thing... in which I will say, "in your opinion, but I disagree"... then everyone is happy... but I know how it feels to give in... and then feel like a dog about it, afterward... like, what kind of person am I? Well, I know what kind of person I am... as you do... you, perhaps, did a kind thing for your sister... nothing wrong in that...

lee said...

So true ..in my opinion, most statements, especially those about entertainment, are subjective opinions.

twodogsblogging said...

I saw Slumdog the other night. If you at all enjoyed it, rent Salaam Bombay, Mira Nair's touching portrait of India's street children.

lee said...

Thank you ..I will check it out.